Do something for YOU today…

I posted this a few years ago, and thought it was time to share again:)

WILL YOU DANCE WITH ME

Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they
haven’t thought about it, don’t have it on their schedule, didn’t know it
was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.

I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up
dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then
on, I’ve tried to be a little more flexible.

How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn’t
suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does the
word ‘refrigeration’ mean nothing to you?

How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you
watched ‘Jeopardy’ on television?

I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, ‘How about going to
lunch in a half hour?’ She would gas up and stammer, ‘I can’t. I have
clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had
a late breakfast, It looks like rain.’ And my personal favorite: ‘It’s
Monday.’ She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together.

Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our
headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when
all the conditions are perfect!

We’ll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Steve toilet-trained.
We’ll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet… We’ll go on a
second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college..

Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and
the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we awaken, and
all we have to show for our lives is a litany of ‘I’m going to,’ ‘I plan
on,’ and ‘Someday, when things are settled down a bit.’

When anyone calls my ‘seize the moment’ friend, she is open to adventure and
available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm
for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes, and you’re
ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Roller blades and skip an
elevator for a bungee cord..

My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It’s
just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula and
eliminate the digestive process The other day, I stopped the car and bought
a triple-Decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have
died happy.

Now…go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to……not
something on your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only
one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say?
And why are you waiting?

Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I sent this to you.

Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or listened to the
rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butter fly’s erratic flight or
gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each day on the
fly? When you ask ‘ How are you?’ Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores
running through your head? Ever told your child, ‘We’ll do it tomorrow.’
And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let a good
friendship die? Just call to say ‘Hi?

When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened
gift….Thrown away….. Life is not a race Take it slower. Hear the music
before the song is over.

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Our TV debut. WECT on boudoir photography!! Wilmington NC boudoir and wedding photography

My friend and client, Ashlea Kosikowski ( I photographed her wedding on 9.10.11 view here) , interviewed me and a few of my clients for a piece on  boudoir photography! We had so much fun! Huge thank you to my fabulous hair + makeup stylist, <a href=”http://www.jamiehair.com”>Jamie Warzel</a>, for making my model look so beautiful.  Thank you to Kim + Erin for being so brave and putting yourself out there for all of Wilmington to see:) You did great and will hopefully inspire other women to embrace their bodies and their beauty!!

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Hair and Makeup tips from professional hair and makeup artist Jamie Warzel

I would love for every client to have the ability to have a professional hair + makeup artist style them on the day of their boudoir shoot, but sometimes, this just isn’t an option.  Because of that, I asked my favorite stylist, Jamie Warzel,  to prepare some tips for me to pass on to my clients that will be doing their hair and makeup themselves.

Jamie has given us some great tips for creating a romantic and sexy boudoir look!  This article will help you feel “camera ready,” so grab a pen and pencil and take notes!

Also, if you have any questions, feel free to leave them in the comments section below and Jamie will happily answer them all in a follow-up post!!

 

Boudoir Hair and Makeup

Here are some tips for creating a romantic, sexy boudoir look!

 

HAIR

The day/night before your shoot:

Wash and condition your hair. Towel dry.

Spray a volumizer at the roots. With a wide-tooth comb, comb the product through the ends of your hair. [Try: Matrix Amplify Root Lifter, Rusk Thick]

Divide your hair in sections, and blow-dry with a round brush, always lifting at the roots. If you have trouble using a round brush, use a paddle brush. [Try: Paul Mitchell 413 Sculpting Brush]

 

The day of your shoot:

For more volume at the roots, lightly mist with dry shampoo. Leave in for a minute, and then work it in with fingertips or brush. [Try: Batiste Original Dry Shampoo, TreSemme Fresh Start Volumizing Dry Shampoo]

Take random sections of hair and wrap around a curling iron. Small sections for tighter curls; larger sections for bigger waves. OR Set your hair in rollers. Always roll them away from your face.

Lightly spray pieces with hairspray. [Try: Matrix Vavoom Freezing Spray, Sebastian Shaper or Shaper Plus]

Gently loosen and tousle your hair, so waves stay intact. If your ends look dry, use a small amount of serum on your hands when tousling. Only apply serum to ends of hair, never to the roots. [Try: Garnier Fructis Style Brilliantine Shine, Biosilk Silk Therapy]

Lightly hairspray again all over to hold the waves.

 

If you have super short hair, skip the curling iron and use a pomade to create a sexy, “bed head” look. [Try: TIGI Bed Head stick] Bed Head is also great for controlling flyaways.

 

MAKEUP

At least 3 days before your shoot:

Make sure your eyebrows are tweezed or waxed so they are ready to go. Treat any face and body acne with topical medicine (that works for your skin type). Even if you don’t have visible acne, continue treating areas that you know are acne-prone to prevent a breakout.

 

PS:  Don’t forget about your finger and toe nails!  Treat yourself to a mani/pedi or trim and paint them yourself!

 

The day of your shoot:

EYES:

I like to create a sexy, sultry eye for boudoir shoots! Here’s how:

On the brow bone (under your eyebrow) and inside corners, apply a shimmery ivory shadow to highlight these areas. [Try: Ulta Eye Shadow in Naked, Pearl or Silk]

Over the entire lid, sweep a shimmery neutral shade. [Try: Ulta Eye Shadow in Truffle, Organza or Tiara]

In the crease and outer corners, I love to use a dark, purple-y taupe! [Try: Ulta Eye Shadow in Mesmerize, or MAC Eye Shadow in Patina or Twinks] Use this on the lower lashline too!

Line the outer half of the upper lashine with black pencil eyeliner. To smooth and set the liner, use a slanted eyeliner/shadow brush with dark brown or black eye shadow over the liner.

Curl eyelashes. Apply 2 coats of black mascara to top and bottom lashes.

 

FACE:

To create a fresh complexion, we are going to skip powder in our makeup application. Here’s what to do:

If your face feels dry, apply a light moisturizer. [Try: CeraVe Moisturizing Lotion, Oil of Olay Moisturizing Lotion for Sensitive Skin]

If you tend to have oily skin, use an oil-control primer. [Try: Philosophy Never Let Them See You Shine, Philosophy The Present Clear Makeup*, or Smashbox Photo Finish Light] *The Present is great if you have large pores, scarring, wrinkles or uneven skin tone.

Using your fingers or concealer brush, cover any blemishes and under eye darkness with concealer. Blend well. [Try: Sonia Kashuk Concealer Palette, Essence Cover Stick]

Using your fingers, makeup sponge, or foundation brush, lightly apply foundation only where necessary to create a smooth, flawless face. Blend well. [Try: Maybelline Dream Liquid Mousse] OR If you have oily skin, try an oil-control foundation or makeup. [Try: MAC Studio Tech, MAC Studio Fix Powder Plus Foundation]

If you want to use bronzer, apply from your ear down the hollows of cheeks (to contour). Apply across forehead, temples and lightly across cheeks and chin to add color. You can also apply it with a large fluffy brush to collarbone and décolletage! [Try: Rimmel Natural Bronzer]

Use a cream blush on the apples of your cheeks and blend upward and outward to hairline. OR apply a light dusting of powder blush. Use a natural, rosy peach shade. [Try: MAC Powder Blush in Mocha]

 

BROWS + LASHES:

Using a pencil liner, fill in eyebrows using short, feathery strokes.

Apply false lashes. I like to use the ones labeled “wispies”! They look full and flirty! If you have a hard time applying lashes, cut them in half and apply just to the outer half of your lashline. [Try: Ardell Wispies in Black]

 

LIPS:

For long-wearing natural lip color, line and fill them with a lipliner. I like to use a nude, peachy pink for boudoir shoots. [Try: e.l.f. Feather Proof Moisturizing Lip Liner in Spice]

Apply a clear or tinted gloss all over. [Try: Ulta Super Shiny Lip Gloss in Whisper, Smith’s Rosebud Salve]

 

Feel free to leave a comment or question!

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Photo is a screen shot from Jamie's Homepage. The above photos were not taken by SLP

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Allison - March 29, 2012 - 10:27 am

Any tips for naturally curly hair?

Jamie Warzel - March 29, 2012 - 4:53 pm

Hi Allison! Touch-up any curls as needed with a curling iron (the same size as your natural curls), and leave it natural! If it’s long, you could also wear it up in a loose, messy ponytail! Or if you want to wear it straighter, blow-it out smooth with a large round brush!

What to wear on your boudoir shoot. Part III. Your legs.

This post will focus on making your legs look long and lean all by what you choose to wear!

Sexy Legs!

1. Lose the Strap! The best way to make your legs look longer is to wear a shoe WITHOUT a strap. I love my strappy shoes as much as the next gal, but if you wear them to a session your legs will appear shorter.  No strap, and a closed toe makes your leg appear longer which = leaner!

2.  Hide them.  If you are insecure about spider veins or pale legs, the best way to keep your legs looking sexy is to add a thigh high.  Either a solid black or a fishnet is suuuuuper sexy!  I love these and they can add so much to a basic outfit.

3.  Get girly. Long skirts or long nightgowns are so feminine and so pretty. We can do so many fun things with them in photos, too!

LASTLY, remember this is only one tiny part of making you look your best! If you show up with one bra and one nightgown, we will still be able to take a gorgeous photo of your legs, arms, butt, belly etc., just with the use of light and perspective! So don’t fret if you are having a hard time finding the perfect outfits:)

 

 

 

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